RPhBlogs: Ways of Love

RPhBlogs: Ways of Love: Every beat of the heart means, life. It is one of the major organs of the human body that keeps us up, alive and kicking.  And also vastly r...

Blessed Heart

No one even comes close who puts me in a roller coaster ride of emotions as much as you do. And that's the moment I knew, I had something special for you. You complete my day, just by talking to you. You make the sky so gloomy by not feeling you around.

When I think of tomorrow, I can't think of anything certain, but wanting you to be there. Forever is such an intimidating word because it's been a chant, but not all have lived up to it in the real sense. And if you we're to ask me what it means, forever is just a cliche word, until you made me realize that it is NOW.

Being in a relationship with you for months, has been amazing.

 I can tell we've grown together individually as a person. We have contributed in each other's growth and it made me realize that being in love is more than a feeling, but a journey. It starts with being lost, to be found. In being weak, to find the strength, and letting those weaknesses be unflawed to reveal your totality to your other half. Then comes embracing the imperfections, and that makes them more amazing. Then eventually, you will notice that desire to become someone better for the one you love, not because he have changed you, but unconsciously, you know you have found the reason to make yourself worthy because someone have given you a love that requires no condition.

There would be times that I would ask myself if I'm enough. There would be times i'll doubt about the blurry lines (I'm a woman, with a girl's petty mind). But it's just fate telling me everytime, "have faith." And there comes trust, which means everything. And I believe that we've met in a level where the trust, is given of the highest value. 

"Oh, you'll meet with your friends, it's fine with me. Have fun, love. Text me when you're coming home I'll be there to fetch you."

"Boys night? Fairly fine. Just be sure when you say "boys", just boys, OK?"

We allow ourselves to breath and to miss each other's company. As for me, I always remember that a man's fidelity is not measured by his capacity to stay, but to return untarnished after exploring the world.

I know we can never be perfect, we both can make mistakes along the way. But I hope that when that time comes, we'll be there for each other to have a heart, full of room for acceptance and understanding. But you know I'll always ask for faithfulness because I believe that in loving, comes contentment and being aware and respectful of each other's feelings.

I am just so blessed to have this kind of love. And what more am I really grateful for? It's because when I got you, I know it's God's way of saying "He's the one" because I prayed for you, and it's His way of telling me that, "I'm giving you to this son of mine, to love you, cherish you, have someone to grow with, for you to feel how much I love you, through your other half's existence, whom will complete you."

Ways of Love

Every beat of the heart means, life. It is one of the major organs of the human body that keeps us up, alive and kicking.  And also vastly responsible for that strange, erratic, insane feeling called LOVE.

The word love can be defined and shown in so many ways spoken and done. Wikipedia says it involves a biological theory from how our hormonal levels elevate by just how our system responds with how we feel. But mind you, it may even be explained without the need of any factual references used, just by relying in our emotions.

 Imagine a 7-year old kid feeling loved whenever her pet dog licks her face and giggles. May it be a 5th-grader as she blushes and suppresses a scream in her mind whenever she sees her crush pass by, or a high-schooler boy walking her girl home, making sure she gets safely and bids "see you again, tomorrow."And every time our mum patiently waits, 'till our pops arrive home and give him a big, warm hug, tells him she'd prepared his favorite meal and, even with the way our grandmother lays her head on grandpa's shoulder, implies simple gestures, but makes the heart pound even more with happiness. 

 Love speaks no age. It is felt everywhere around us, not only from romantic ones, but with every life forms. Allow it to radiate within us, and exude with gratefulness. It can be told in so many ways, you just gotta listen.